Social conditioning
- written by Demiocrates -
I'm quite a long time thinking on the subject. Now at last I've found the time to write a somewhat longer text. I got my inspiration from many sources can, and included my own experience can be.
Most people walk in a kind of comatose state due to the world that she does indeed get to realize what is happening around them, they do it but not for long. Let's take the example of bird flu, it was a huge panic because we have made can all die. Really died However, none. If we compare now recognizes the drive time by car can quickly make any panic because of the cars, however, several hundred people die every year due to car accidents. This phenomenon can be applied to many other examples. This results in large part by social conditioning.
Where does social conditioning:
parents
religion
-school-friends
- Media: Movie / Music
work
How to understand the whole?
In the classic Hollywood films, it is like this: man meets woman, they get to know and the whole goes to pieces because they must leave, must marry another man or whatever ... The. Man reaches a point where he realizes that she is the ONE. So he runs to her, confesses his feelings, she gets tears in his eyes and they kiss.
A very very long time, I also thought that this would be the only way to the heart of a woman. I confess I thought her my feelings and everything will be fine. It would make my life perfect and I could treat her like a princess. I bought flowers for Valentine's Day, wrote a book of poems, etc .... And what was the end of the song? She tells me she is not on me, find me but very nice and I will not lose a good friend. Or there were things like
"Oh this is so wonderful of you to thank you ... .. "
" I think it's really great of you, thank you very much ... "
" You're really nice .... "
....
....
I came together with these girls? I've gelayed?
Or has it to me a few weeks later from this "great guy" says she has learned? ^ ^
I think the answer might think its you, they were not necessarily satisfactory.
there's a few examples of which more that I do not want to dwell here. I think you understand what I want out. ... I lived in the Hollywood Conditioned created social reality. It's a long journey of what you really want to "love" to the point where you really get it and enjoy.
In the beginning you will be loved and found PU, you realize that it is not with the previously launched tests can continue. It will be better and has initial success. One can see what it is about social dynamics to be more self-confidence gets
etc ... By and large, have you had success with women, but I find that it was not what I wanted. Sure, it's wonderful when you get to know many women and can seduce her. But only when Lexian the weekend said: "Every woman with whom you sleep is empty. "He is also right. Therefore, it is at least my personal goal is not to sleep with as many women as possible but with the women that I want. I develop myself towards natural, it means I am not pretending and use little routines. If I then use that just because I liked it personally. For only if one is not pretending you can be loved for what one is. That is why the most logical step after the player development for the Natural and hence the success in love.
course, the whole works and often, a man is romantic and the woman lets him get away with it, and Attraction is simple by nature present between the two. This is a wonderful thing and I'm happy for these men. I myself am also often like Romantic, but calibrated. But there is no connection between romance and attraction, at least, none of the generalized. As with Value-game ... but to somewhere else more because it would not fit in here quite clean.
mass confusion
Were there times in the past points in time at which individual ethnic groups or even all of humanity has believed in false truths? This has even represented with absolute power? Maybe 1 or 2 times?
Let us make even a pure and absolute theoretical thought experiment. Would it possible that it is still as `? We, you and I today still hold to false beliefs just because of our social conditioning has led us to this?
So we have to recognize in 10.100 or 200 years very different truths to be true?
Why is it that we naturally assume that our social beliefs are correct?
Take something as simple as a table or a plastic glass ... for me from an I-Phone. Do you know how and what it is made? I do not know and I'll probably never know. It must have created some pretty smart people. Because it does not interest us, we are not capable in most cases. But they just use. We are just glad they are there and deal with other "more important" things.
We can fly into space or video calls. ... And do not know how most of these things work perfectly. I mean surely there are one or two who knows how different things work, but even these people of much of the world has no clue. Do not panic, we are conditioned to assign authority to specialists, we can determine it our reality or conditioning. "They are smart and have brought us video phones so they must be good at other things, it allows our Cure diseases, so they can, other things, etc., etc .... "With her, I mean the society as a whole.
In NLP this is called whole Pacing & Leading: they take us to leaden pacing it.
There are several ways how we humans learn.
learning through first hand experience
- Hot Stove, with power outlets, etc., etc.
learn through social conditioning / social behavior
- jumping from heights, bombs etc
The majority of social conditioning is very good. It keeps you from running to jump out the window or up to complain that a fast-moving car. ... Learning to Conditioned social base is approximately as follows. The new ideas / beliefs within a filter through all of our head is constructed roughly as follows.
first How credible is the / the editors of this idea?
second convinced as his / her publisher is from these ideas?
third How many people are still convinced of the idea are
This in itself is not bad because we have the opportunity to learn very fast. However
says our brains are also often "meet the needs of truth," even if it is absolute nonsense, just because the 3 aforementioned filter through without problems. For example
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The Rapper Nelly Turn a video with a plaster on his face had to because he had an infection or whatever, it was pretty cool for a while to wear in the hip-hop scene a plaster on his face. Even if no injury or anything else had.
There are dozens of other examples:
The Nazis, witch burning, etc. ...
propaganda, myths, ideologies, lubricating campaigns. All these things work solely on the basis of the same human mechanisms:
"It must be true-I can feel it, it makes sense-I can feel it"
The company creates a lot of beliefs and we have years over again found evidence for these beliefs and thus the social Conditioned World in its backbone support.
Because if something is seen from a certain standpoint, it's just the way that you can find almost intra evidence or confirmation of this view, while it is totally regardless of whether it is true or not. So our brain is now up again.
What all this mean in terms of Pick Up?
we go'd like to think that was a major part of us brought up by a woman or was at least very strongly socially conditioned by females. Means that we have been conditioned from a standpoint of information is dominated by women.
means:
women have told us what they want.
-Women have told us what is socially acceptable
women tells us how they want to be treated.
That's not bad in principle, but yes we all know that women often do not know what they want. Do not get me wrong I am a friend of emancipation and I am glad that my mother made me the man is who I am. However, this social conditioning of equip gone completely uncalibrated. That means I've lived a long time in a reality that was not the mine. From out of this reality I have always sought evidence to confirm those. That is why I found it so difficult to break it from the beginning, I have, after all, about very many years, while self confirmed and thus encouraged.
Now I see the whole of a Andren perspective or from a different reality. are examples of my new view's enough
I am the price
men and women have equal rights
I am a male 10
It is approachable absolutely inordnung to women on the street, more so it is perfectly ok women in almost any location, almost every time approaches to.
It is because of social conditioning caused a mass panic when men address women on the street, where men are superior to techniques to be successful with women if Men to further develop more interest to women when men go out and bury only get a certain routine and to get better ....
are all good examples of negative influence of social conditioning.
So it is with things such as avian flu, polio, BSE, etc ... If we are honest
times we are not having problems, all we have real problems that could be controlled by the Company. Let's say you're sick, you do not have a problem you go to the doctor. Social conditioning is a good thing, in most cases. It is important to recognize just what are the advantage of conditioning, which own the Fit reality and all you can only find out when you have a pure and above all open mindset / frame has. Make your own thoughts and gather your own experiences.
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