The attitude
- by Astradamus -
One of the things that make life so unpredictable and exciting is the fact that you, the next minute can never be sure. Each minutes dawn brings the possibility to give their own or even several lives changed permanently and irrevocably.
The enthusiasm of this fact finds its limits, however, regularly is that it is the curse of mankind, to always see only the negatives of his life. They take their lives for granted, overlooked their ways never dare something and react to external influences rather than to act independently and to take the reins in his hand.
am And I firmly believe that one has control over his life to a large extent themselves. What to do in his life is a matter of attitude. The determined attitude of our own happiness, vibrancy, and the work to other people. It is also a determining factor for the achievement or failure of your goals and overcome obstacles they face along the way in their path.
Attitude is your inner engine, the driving force for a more successful, happier and happier life. People around you as your environment, your misfortunes and the extent of your personal success, everything is a reflection of your personal attitude and thus controllable. Why do you think happened on Friday the 13th Almost without exception, people of faith but something bad? Why do you think there are people for whom everything was they touch to gold? There is no such thing as cosmic injustice. There are just people with different attitude.
course should be mentioned at this point that there can be real happiness and heavy blows of fate independent of the attitude, no question. But no one is without cause long-term success or unsuccessful. This is a reflection of the attitude. Everyone has the power to his fate, his own life to take control and to shape it according to your wishes and ideas. And how it works, it is this article.
Chapter 1: Go your own way
First It is important to recognize that each person is ultimately even the next.
This is a fundamentally important insight, both for our own happiness and the happiness in relationships. Learn to act and not react. Making a mistake that many people is incredible, her own happiness by extraneous factors to addictive.
This is a fallacy in many respects. A friend once told me he was happy when his girlfriend is happy. That is why he was doing everything to make his girlfriend happy.
The first thought I thought that sounded quite logical. However, behind this belief a quite serious error. You make your success, your development, your happiness is dependent on it. All happiness to you this with her and that you have cause, although a positive staining, but you develop no further. In your head they will therefore always be higher on the podium than you
It is thus important in the first interview, do not like to bring them up to
(so that you do everything ultimately depends on their sentence), but to ensure ensure that it strives to ensure that you like her. This mindset is in the community described as "I am the prize". Ultimately, it sounds harder than it actually is. After all, almost all the women waiting for hours in the bathroom and make themselves pretty, before they leave the house. They do not only for reasons of vanity. It is, as the Italian actor Marcello Mastroianni said, ". All the hype emancipation did not change the fact that beautiful women do to please men."
If you're so beautiful to please men, why should they change it in conversation? Exactly. Your belief creates your reality! The understand and internalize the most important thing the PU can communicate. Your belief creates your reality! Mystery swear as to its indirect method and its routines. And he has so same right as, for example, David X, with its two basic principles: first
I am the most important person in this relationship
second Who cares what they think?
much different the two systems could actually not be. Mystery at the scale model, quite simply put, always to look about at what stage of the game you are in, and whether it is so, that you can launch the next phase of the game.
David X interested the other hand, does not care about what the woman does or thinks.
He speaks out bluntly: "Who cares what they think?".
However, both are from their system completely convinced and act on it. That is why it works for them. If you've found your game, and 100% are satisfied, then you fall even more out of the frame. If someone tells you that 2 times 2 = 7, then you believe him not, yes. No matter how convinced he seems. And just as sure you have you be with your game. Shit then tests no longer a hurdle for you. I personally have started using the method of Mystery and quite experienced good results.
is against this method in principle little objection. It works. However, I discovered for myself one problem: You do not develop further. You do not pay attention, to develop yourself. You know as you have to behave, if anyone interferes in your game. You pre-opener, canned responses and even an entire prefabricated Game model. For independence and individuality is not a real place. One does eventually get to know just not fun anymore.
The routines used this method often as a kind of protective armor. To Succeed in Business without having to change a very good time and improve. If it comes to a relationship, however, make use of these routines is not as much. There it is all about individuality and character. And the often lack of personal development comes to light sooner or later.
go his own way - That alone is really difficult enough for most people.
you go through life and take it for granted. You do not waste a thought about who they are, what they do or how they change themselves. How should the go? You do not even know what they want to be. The first step to achieve a positive attitude, so the self-determination will be:
Who are you?
Yes, as simple as it sounds, it is not fact.
What are your best qualities? What have you done so far to improve it to increase them? What are your worst qualities? What have you been made to transform them into positive? Would you like to friends with you? Why? What are your hobbies? I pour out my real hobbies, the endorphins and where you can get better? What do / can you otherwise? What are your talents? Promote, you know these?
Who makes decisions? Think about the last question due! It is quite important. Speeches at other people in your life? Do you let them? To what extent can you influence you like this? If you let yourself diverted from one thing, even if you're 100% convinced, if only enough people to convince you? How do you define yourself?
There are 2 types of self-definition:
The people who are defined by their looks - and those who do it on their mind / intelligence. Often these patterns shape at puberty and often shape the personality for a lifetime.
Successful people with a good attitude to see their self-definition as a whole. Pay attention to their appearance, they are pursuing personal care, worrying about their clothes, their bodies and exercise.
but you do something for their spirit. That is, in my opinion, very important. Do what to your intelligence and your education. Play chess, solve a sudoku, train your logical thinking. Look at the news on and / or read the newspaper. Reading good books or watch insightful reports. General education, a certain logic skills and a basic understanding of culture never hurt anyone.
I also think it is important to invest time in his inner game. Think about you by! What progress have you done lately? And what mistakes? What goals do you have and how does / will you reach them? You begrudge you happiness and satisfaction?
What goals do you have?
who snapped the rust. So as not to rust, it is of primary importance to sit in his life goals and pursue them. It does not matter if there are major goals or are small. But believe that you can do it and you make it! The most important point here is:
"Your reality is your reality." If only you believe hard enough because if you really believe in and are willing to give everything to remove all obstacles out of the way up, and to take all for it to prescribe, then almost anything is possible.
Then there is no possibility of failure. Then there is only a new insight on how to do it. Nothing more, nothing less. About one thing you must realize you are, you will never be paid what! Get used to it. Success is hard work. Maybe you know people who are lucky and everything always Create fuck it! Even where not everything that glitters is gold.
Work for your success. Work well and work hard. Work every day and analyze your results. Success is not the result of lucky circumstances, but the result of work, the hardener was than the other. This is the content of "Yes we can!". This way there will always be people who tell you your goals are too high or the other would be much better than you and this could create more goals.
you do not know what they are talking. Your reality is your reality! If you really want and are working hard enough for it, then you can do it too.
Chapter 2: reversals
deal on your way, you'll probably have to fight again and again with failures and setbacks. The fate you can play bad and you tear off the ground under their feet. It happens to most people at some point in their lives. And everyone has to deal at this point with it. But how?
The nature and occurrence of setbacks can be as different as possible. The spectrum ranges from not passing the test, about love sorrow to the death of close relatives and acquaintances, or serious illnesses. Such tragedies are always surprising and are therefore extremely shocking. First you need in these situations time. This time is used to think, process and recover.
This phase established the natural way and it is important and necessary. No one is always a good thing or always happy. Everyone is sad times, each time a bad mood. Anyone can have a crappy phase. That's human. This deal will, however, be learned. Nobody can do what for your situation. If you do not put up with the help of other people at this time can, is not that bad. But people treat in spite of your situation with courtesy and respect. Do not be ashamed of your sadness and your helplessness.
If you really overwhelmed, you do not continue know or think that you need help, then trust yourself and you also looking for help. This is neither bad nor embarrassing. Success is all that helps. You must not create everything yourself. False pride has helped anyone yet. In such situations there is a primary goal: to get back on track. If this goes better with help, then take this same claim. Do not be ashamed for it, but be proud of you, that you are fighting the problem.
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With all due respect for grief and processing phase, however, noted however, that it eventually reaches. Get up! Deep in your inner you know what to do. Be strong and stand up. And you stand on wobbly legs - nothing is to remain worse than lying. Do you fall down again, do not care. Wipe mouth and try again to rise again. That's the spirit! When it comes to a loved one, then do everything in your power to help him. When it comes to you, get up and overcome the crisis.
Nothing is worse than the setback to be determined about his life. Have a life. Have a regular routine and follow it! Draw your conclusions and try to ensure that you get back up and will not fall back into that hole. A successful man is a self-critical.
He studied errors, causes and solutions are always, at least in part, for themselves and they can Former setbacks do not decide on their future life. I know many such people: "I was disappointed and can not get involved in something new." This statement prevents improvement! They are their own success in the way, because they can not enjoy the new circumstances!
Do not stand in the way even to you, do not begrudge you your success. Not let it get you from setbacks, learn to live with them and draw new strength.
Chapter 3: Limiting Beliefs - The enemy of progress
We all live in a world in which it is impossible to know everything. The more complex the circumstances, the more factors to affect the result and then the harder this is to anticipate the end, the bigger grows the gap of what we really know. People do not know if fate really does exist. Similarly, people know of the existence or nonexistence of God. Instead, we believe.
The faith shapes our character, the way we design our progress and how we perceive our environment and our lives. So it is quite normal that you appropriates in his life, values and beliefs to understand the one to serve the world better. Almost all beliefs have in common is that you are not sure how it actually is because. The result is almost imperative that one is vulnerable at this point of influence for the outside. We are educated by our parents, teachers, kindergarten aunt. We also shapes our social environment, society, the media.
The foreign influence from the outside is so huge that you get little opportunity to make the various issues its own opinion. We are forced from childhood in pre-pattern, which later form our values and our beliefs.
These values and beliefs that shape your personality and your character, they become your beliefs, your actions and determine ultimately about your happiness, your life - your fate if you will. And that's why I am firmly convinced that everything in your consciousness, perhaps you were not created, it lies in your power to take responsibility and you your own freedom, to create your own happiness by itself.
Limiting Beliefs are built up only where you give the responsibility for his life in other hands, be it from parents, the partner, the Company or by whom.
Only then there is the risk that your "reality" is determined by others and with your true self is not in congruence. Because your reality but fundamentally different from your beliefs and your value system depends, it is of real significance to banish negative beliefs, so-called limiting beliefs from your head.
For many beliefs, I go here once a deliberate only on the negative, we are aware;
are examples:
• I'm too ugly to get a woman like this
• Others are more qualified for this job, why should I get it?
• I'm terrified of heights, I Ansprechangst, I'm afraid of spiders.
beliefs as they block your success. How do you want your counterpart in an interview an assurance that you are the best for this job if you do not even think about it? How do you want to seduce a dream woman, if you are convinced that it was far too good for you? How will you ever enjoy the wonderful view of the Eiffel Tower, if you believe the observation deck was too high for you?
This fear, this negativity, this nonsense keeps you from making a better life. You want these things can determine about your life, though you definitely something else!
Deep in your heart of hearts deep down inside you you know you want this wonderful woman. The belief that you 're too ugly for this woman is one of the most most common limiting beliefs out there, so I can not help but come to express my views here about the importance of appearance in the game.
importance of appearance in the game
The importance of appearance in the game is probably one of the most hotly debated topics of the pick-up community.
One side says look to play no role in the success with women and life. Everything depended on which it would be a good game. The other side vigorously denies this, is produced mainly that the former view, the only way to argue their products sell better, and that even thousands of examples admit that prove successful and attractive people that unattractive people are unsuccessful. This was allegedly denied.
The truth however lies somewhere in between. The look obviously has an impact on the success in the game. However, only indirect. The truth is, then look no longer matters if one has no control over it. Do you have bad skin, greasy hair, an ugly spectacle, 100 pounds overweight, uncut fingernails, and bad odor, then your chances are of course not as high as that of Brad Pitt. Wow, crazy. What a novelty.
No one has ever contested. Someone who looks so, lets go. He writes himself to any high value. He can also arrange for any reason.
you put value on your appearance, however, a neat appearance, good body awareness and a generally positive demeanor, then look no value added in the game.
It does not matter if you have tanned skin and are rather light with freckles. It makes no difference whether you're large or rather small. Your appearance is only then that is a purely subjective feeling your opponent. You are cared for and get the most out of you.
that you fit maybe not the exact type of your target, not interested.
That's when you hear women say: "He really was not my type, but he had that certain something". A good game makes it possible.
beliefs about your appearance that can hold you back in the game are only two things:
• True. Then make up for the socks to the type of advice. Take off, buy better clothes exaggerating, more exercise and make sure that you get the most out of you. This not only increases your chances in the game but also provides for a better body awareness and quality of life.
• False. Bullshit. viruses of the mind that prevent you from successfully be. Mischief, who has made you in breadth. Are you a well-kept man who values his appearance? If so, does your appearance does not matter at all.
Poor beliefs about your appearance you should either serve as an incentive to do something for yourself, the best in you extract and improve your life - you have it in your hand. Or, you should throw overboard this nonsense and start to enjoy your life. For again, you have it in their own hands.
Limiting Beliefs deteriorate your quality of life. They block your way to live your best life. To attain what you really could. You versklavst up in front of your own thoughts. Negativity and limitations are in reality nothing at all lost. They are just products of your mind, your faith.
The world famous Austrian psychiatrist Viktor Frankl for example, had terrible fear of heights. He refused to surrender to that fear. Rather than be afraid and to avoid high altitudes, he did his utmost to control its quality of life itself.
He even took flying lessons and got his fear of so under control.
The advantage of the beliefs on which we are aware is that we have the ability to control and counteract them.
Problem is it true if we hold beliefs that we are not as aware as we, so normal that we never have thought they would be questioned.
Two examples are mentioned here:
• The monogamous or polygamous relationship with women
• The importance of romance in a relationship
Our social character is so firmly rooted in us that we are about the meaning of certain things that make absolutely no thoughts. Who determines that you have in a relationship 'truth'?
takes what reason the majority of people these "principles" for granted go? Everywhere we being presented with this issue: our parents, friends, in Hollywood movies: "You MUST be true! Is it you do not, you're a bad man! ". Whether this is so, or not makes absolutely no role. It was imposed upon us and we have to add us. As we try it herself, we wonder to squeeze into this ready-made scheme is not that this often does not fit and we feel unhappy or dissatisfied.
But our social character has indeed taught us that we have to accept Sun But, even that is a limiting belief! Everyone has the freedom to make his life the way it sees fit. Your faith, your dreams, create your dreams your reality!
Do not be afraid to live it. Also misunderstood PickUp leads to false beliefs: So still believe many in the community, they would have
refusing to monogamy and live their lives according to "Enigma" MLTR theory or always gamen and ever any women and tear, because their status as "PUA" so requires.
you think they should pay the wife does not drink or a little romance in a relationship would end the relationship immediately, because it is so very nice-guy.
These are all limiting beliefs!
For example, I am aware, my friend decided to ensure their physical fidelity live and enjoy it very much. Neither I am missing something, yet I have "fear" of missing something. We live this system because we are convinced and our relationship to this point of our best work. This does not, dear reader, that this is also for you is the right way. Live your life according to your preferences to your principles, by your rules!
alone makes you happy. All that is preventing them up a limiting belief and is thrown overboard. Your belief creates your reality. Only then are you really in a position independently and be happy too! Then you give the responsibility for your success no longer, then your happiness is not determined by others! Then you have the opportunity to live your best life! The
your actions and your reality, however, possible to remain within the legal framework should be mentioned at this point though, but it should be obvious enough not to have to be explained.
Chapter 4: Self-respect and Frame
did in the previous three chapters I tried to describe how important it is for a positive, healthy and successful attitude, his life after his own to live performances, to deal with setbacks and get rid of negative and harmful thought processes to.
This chapter will now deal with the self-respect and the appropriate frame.
Self Respect - What is it?
In my understanding, self-respect is the highest form, is itself to blame for a value.
Wikipedia describes respect as a form of respect and deference to one person. Self-respect is therefore such a thing as respect for and deference to the individual. But to me, to respect themselves, I have to be my self-conscious indeed. In this respect, an important part of self-respect self-confidence.
confidence
If you turn off the direct word meaning of self-consciousness, it is about knowing at all levels of their own personality, to know, in other words by themselves how to react in certain situations, which values represent you and what skills you have, whatever convictions you put on the day and to know your own strengths and weaknesses.
's own weaknesses of most people. We met them again and again every day and they show up there too often quite distinct. I argue here again for everything we can to recognize Weaknesses as productive and quickly convert them into strengths. But because it fails many. Many people do not even know what strengths they possess. What they can and so far have achieved is often not valued and classified as self-evident. Often it is even ashamed to be successful:
"Yes, I had only luck,"
"It was really easy,"
"Others have done it too."
excuse almost sure that they have accomplished something.
If you have achieved something, that's always a success. No matter how it is twists and turns. And if you're not satisfied, then it should be done, set his sights higher and achieve even this. Have done it so far but it must be condemned in any case.
Success is a positive value and this is their own awareness and calm itself to blame! However, it should not be bragging to their own successes. The proper handling of success you wear with it themselves. If I have all over the world reveal how great I made it all but it is not difficult an objective view of their own power to preserve, but also carries with it the danger of wanting to get his recognition from the outside to feel better. The really
Strong, reaching target moves, so in the background and you pushed themselves back into the center of the external assessment pants, for recognition. Success is not a problem to tell. However, one should be careful not to get in your face "and attention-demanding over. Self-confident people have no such thing needed.
If he has gained new insights about himself, then he sits down ran and processes them, both good. He need not lower the rating of others. He finally knows himself best. A confident man is as a self-critical person, so it is important that you begin to illuminate yourself:
are "Where my strengths, where my weaknesses, "What am I good at and what I care at all?" You can only come to a good self-confidence when you learn you estimate well and know what you can expect of you and what goals you can set you.
particularly at the critical issues you should be very accurate.
No one is perfect, also you should go and be clear. That is why you will find all errors. Find your mistakes and learn a positive relationship with them to have. YOU have in principle between your actions and your self-differentiate.
If you make mistakes, you're not a bad person because of it.
errors are good, they analyze and improve up thereby.
Have you improved, recognized your strengths, then stand them too. There is nothing bad in it.
self-esteem
Another point which I think is essential for the self-respect is the self-esteem. The term self-esteem is commonly understood the value we attach to ourselves in comparison with others. I believe that a healthy self-esteem, in large part the result of the self-confidence. If I even I know what strengths and weaknesses which I have when I know what values I represent and what goals I pursue, I am in my position Value assessed relatively objectively with other people.
I know how I stand in relation to others and I'm not afraid to sit down with them in competition. I write my value to themselves, and make him not of assessments, statements and insults of other dependent, even if I take this note and examine its core a truth. People with high self-esteem need not himself always and constantly to prove or to impress others. You know what they can and what
real value they have. You do not doubt their value and arguing their positive qualities will not answer if they get even a compliment. They treat other people with respect and have no need to make this low in order to feel even better.
What is the definition of respect suggests, it is necessary to respect themselves. I can only make when I look at yourself and write the required value.
confidence
The third and final major point is to respect yourself to a healthy self-confidence. Impress people with confidence again and again by their appearance. They are not ashamed of oneself or one's own behavior.
to look to meet new challenges positively, because they are always sure to find a solution. Go loose with Criticism and to be able to analyze this objectively. You have no problem reaching out to other people and be true to their own wishes and ideas. They condemn not for their own weaknesses and always try a way to see things change for the positive. People with good self-confidence dare much, to win a lot. And if they do not win once, they know to deal with it and to consider their positive conclusions.
The frame of a person with these characteristics:
The section on the frame of a person with these characteristics will now answer the question of how to represent these properties to the outside and how to deal with external influences.
I realize the self-respect in these three parts have broken.
sure, the demarcation of the three parts is extremely difficult and is not necessarily always seen or observed. But what it also does not work. It is important to recognize that the self-respect comes from within. Throughout our lives we have been assessed from the outside.
In school, we got notes and even opinions about our behavior or "conduct". We were told we should be good, or loving. For everything we did, we were evaluated. We were busy, it was good. We were lazy, it was bad.
Certainly the part of their education and also has its reasons somewhere. Negative connotation of this system is that we always make our self-respect from the ratings of other dependent. The blogs regularly but has a bitter taste and also absolutely can not be properly explained are self-
Take us as example, Vitali Klitschko and the first girl in love that he is. However, they did not take him seriously and made fun of him regularly because he spent so much time in the gym and not like the other guys went off to have fun and enjoy life. He wanted to conquer
but this girl anyway. He gave her a photo of boxing gloves, was standing on the back: "Please do not laugh at me. One day I'll be world champion. "
Okay, as we all know it was not now the best game imaginable, it is happening. The girl laughed now really about him and wanted nothing more knowledge of it. Vitali but not bothered about it, he further trained and trained harder. And finally, he was truly world heavyweight champion. He knew his strengths, he knew that he has goals he wants to achieve to take the necessary talent, discipline and ambition around the rocky path there.
He made his life, his happiness, his self-esteem does not depend on others. He went his own way. Who knows what would have happened if he had given up the sport to like this girl?
The importance of self-respect could hardly be greater. Because it ultimately determines how you live your life. Like other work with you and how you design your reality. Like Neil Strauss once said: "The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them."
The best way to get a person you like, is not afraid to lose them.
people with self respect have not even necessary. They do not bend to please others. They are aware of their value and their happiness do not depend on others. They love their life and stand by themselves, since others may like to take turn, just or not. Or, as DeAngelo it once put it: "I live in my reality and you're a guest. Therefore, a man with self respect has to accept it not necessary, an external frame to please someone. Such a man lives on his terms, according to his principles, according to his character. Since he does not care Shit Tests.
He represents his own conviction. Who or what was to shake it?
His frame is as hard as nails and unshakable. He met all men, as well as itself, with respect. He knows, however, also that there is no need to beg for the respect of others. Wen him no respect being paid to it he does not in others. He met all men equal. He relies on his experience and his previous successes.
He is not important to please the opposite in all circumstances. It is like he is. Of course he knows how to behave and is not overly loud or rude or crude. He knows his worth and that's why it is easy for him to behave naturally and do not beg for the appreciation and compliments from others.
He trusts that he gets as good as he is. This is a good thing. If he in fact adjust would, it could easily happen that he would act uncalibrated and incongruent.
The consequence would be permanent threat of manipulation and Shit Tests, with the result that you keep this behavior could not permanently. Simply because it is not your character, your self-image and your ideals. That is not what self respect. People without self-respect have a weak frame.
Chapter 5: The causal link between regular, motivation and success
You throw a look in a dictionary of foreign words, you learn that, under the word "causality" a kind of nexus or causation understood.
causality so far treated the relation of cause and effect.
abstract, we have seen gives rise to the cause side of an act which (whether positive or negative to be seen here again) on the "success level" an effect that is a success. I mention this here has a good reason! Do you remember at the first time in your life that you have brought up a girl? Often this is done with wobbly knees and trembling voice.
You do not know what to say and insecurity are spreading in the body. Often this attempt ends in the failure of your project. You hold no experience in this area had.
Do you remember still on your "first time"? Again, you're nervous, you really do not know how to proceed and whether it does what you just fabricated it correctly. This uncertainty is again due to lack of experience.
It is born a master of the sky! This saying is as old as it is true!
success is the positive result of personal action (Wikipedia).
This positive result is not just due to any action. We often act without that this leads to a success. Important factors for achieving a sense of achievement, however, regularity and success. They form the reason for success.
regularity
One of the key points for success is regularity.
professional athletes train every day for several hours to maintain their level and become even better. We read books to improve their education or improve their skills in the PU, by over and over again trying to gamen women.
practice makes perfect. And practice is consistent regularity. You learn only with his duties. The more you master, the easier they are one. The more you can grind it, or the more neglected his existing skills or knowledge, the harder it will be a fall soon to get its previous performance again.
you catch, such as jogging, on, then one for the first time is often very difficult to get out of breath and the body does after a while tired and lame. One more jogging but the body is more resistant to fatigue and this one runs the same route soon with ease.
regularity brings success in any situation. In sports, learning, the pick-up and in all other situations!
motivation
order so necessary to the success of regularity, however, I need to be motivated to follow through. For reasons of structure I call here the motivation for the regularity. However, it is purely and simply it.
The motivation is your engine, your drive. It costs you energy but it makes you a success. We all know the feeling when the voice inside you logged out and chill, we do better than us to devote the effort to keep the day for us.
But exactly at this point it is important nonetheless because of internal feuds. To get up and give his best. Motivation is the key to regularity. And regularity is the key to success.
The right motivation in turn requires that you know your goals. Finally now you should see how the attitude is related in all their points together. If you have a goal and a firm believer in the achievement, then it will become easier to constantly motivate again.
Thus, one should understand the difference between thoughts and feelings are conscious.
The voice inside is like a little red devil sitting on your shoulder and you always hear whispered: "Stay where you are quiet, that's no problem. Tomorrow you exert yourself for twice as much. "Or" once you relax you deserve! It is not bad if you sometimes do not do anything today! ". The
Feeling begins to set in your mind and take over your thoughts. You think about it shortly after and then really think that there is no problem as long as you give tomorrow just double as much gas. However, the limits of your willingness not from your feelings, but your thoughts are set! Feelings are dependent upon outside factors.
It has often been rarely influence on his feelings. In his thoughts there is. Compete with your negative emotions in conflict. Do not see your current emotional state, but specifically targeted at your target!
Learn to control your thoughts, then you also control your feelings. You can, however, your control your thoughts, feelings, you allow your attention from foreign influences. If the devil sitting on your shoulder and you again say that you should move the story for tomorrow, strike him in his face and acts ever! Have you done it then, then you feel better.
You know I'm right! If it really difficult for you, then constitutes more than ever. You will thank you. Develop their ambitions. This ambition to be better than you previously were. The desire to try every day to play better. Ask more of you than necessary.
demand more from you than others demand it of you. You deal not for others but for you. 'll it deliberately! Internalize this thinking, then you can motivate both durable and successful you will live!
Best regards,
Astradamus.
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