initiative - by Vital
One evening I was talking with a friend about seduction.
And they asked me, "vitality, why so few men to show initiative?"
The following text provides guidance and appeal to you ... men!
Many men can not take the initiative and persistent be.
For example: Jack gets the phone number and called a few days later, telling the girl that she was busy and that the next few days will be busy too. He thinks "Well, they will not stop" and no longer calls them. Too bad, because the women can indeed be really busy. It certainly will not regret in advance or to propose several dates later to call.
women rarely call myself a man. This can happen if you really very interested or she has fallen in love with you. And even in this case, it will most likely write a text message. The least ... Personal
Ever women rarely do what first. Women - they are being passive when it comes to relationships. They expect the initiative from the male side. The girl can sit at home bored to death, and think "Ah, when would now call a man ..." And the first of the calls, it does. Or they can even think of you and want you to speak, but they will never call first! So they are educated, so are the social norms. And instead to meet with you, she meets a Assi, who has called. And you walk away empty-handed - blame yourself!
You have to be the leader, from the beginning! From the beginning, you have to show initiative, to address them they seduce. And the women expect from a man so you must come clear. Women expect it, and therefore am not afraid to speak to that you liked, be courageous and kiss her very first date, and do not look for one reason or the right opportunity. Make it simple, it is expected of you, and it is positive it!
It's always fun to see how some men go to the club and wait until it appeals to a woman. Why do you want to put your social "obligations" to the female shoulder? Do it yourself, you're the man! There are the men who worked on the very system aufgepimped and 100 points, they could decide not to lazy be. But if it's a normal boy ....?
If any relationship is already, then you're the one who should have the reins in his hand! You will say what can make the girl and what you will not tolerate (in your relationship). Look at your friends on, you'll understand what I mean; =) So you'll be the one most plans, which chooses the dates, where you are going and what you do. Women are not usually think of yourself. You go where you take along it. Do you take it to the movies - it comes with the movies. Do you take them along to the go-kart - it will go-kart. Do you take her into the zoo - it comes with the zoo. Remember, you are the leader - It can lead to the'm always in your head!
course, you also have to be the one who chooses the location for sex. If you have your own booth - perfect if not, you think of something, ask your friend if he gives you the apartment for an evening.
Furthermore, let you understand that you will be the one who must initiate the sex! How many times have you met women who wanted to make out with you first ... probably rare. So you're the one who takes the initiative! Even if you did you already undressed and in bed, you're usually out of it. And the girl also expect it from you! If you show no initiative, nothing happens. When any We were at a party and have just talked about this issue and point out the guest enter his girlfriend invited and when all had gone to bed, have to maintain two in his room, he has shown no initiative, no allusions to sex and what happened? Nothing ... and it was his girlfriend. And such examples can be mentioned a lot. If you're naked, then, and you undertake anything, the girl will think "Brake!" Yes, you laugh, but many guys, it was not to laugh.
Just as you must take the initiative when the relationship comes to an end! One can observe how often to meet the couples and there are no feelings between the two, they meet only way out of habit, and not make the grain, because a lack of courage. You are the man, you end the relationship. Those men who left it to the women, insecure men. Fill in the decision and tell her it as a first! Be honest and the girls will understand and accept it. And it is the best way to remain friends after that ... when you need it.
If it was not a serious relationship, only a few times, sex, disco couple of times and it is you lost interest. To end this relationship, you just have to show more initiative. Call her not to. That's enough. Given that women are passive creatures, they will usually wait a couple of days and then you forget.
And finally, show initiative will help not only with women, it helps in all areas of your life! Initiative - one of the best qualities of a personality. Show people the initiative to achieve in their lives very much! Most people are passive. People are taking the initiative invaluable to a company, it is the Führungspersönlichkieten, it is the leader. You can not simply glide situation so they are in control! Do not wait for miracles, but take the initiative and go step by step to their goal.
not reality, it forms, but you shape the reality!
So, YOU must take the initiative! You must show initiative and get to know you have to take their phone number. You have to show initiative and they can call and invite to a date. You must take the initiative and kisses. You have to be persistent and escalating, you need to locate the bursts for sex. You have the initiative to show the relationship that is convenient for you to build. You are the one of them even ended!
heavy? YES! A man is not to be easy.
who has promised that it will be easy??
Good luck!
VITAL
(text based on the material of RMES, http://www.pickupforum.ru/ )
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